To find yourself you have to go away from all the noise to the place of silence and not just physical silence but also spiritual silence. You may have to go silent for a long time, as you travel alone on a journey of self discovery. But it is a journey that we must all travel. Friends and family may not understand and they may think something is wrong with you, they may even think you have become aloof or proud.. or even disturbed.
But you must find your dream, you must confront your desires & hopes, you must face your fears and your ambitions. You must find yourself, you must make yourself. You have to become who you were meant to be. You must know thyself.